Archive for February, 2010

Alec Baldwin punches Photographer! – public speaking media training presentation training

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How to handle Youtube Critics? public speaking media training presentation training

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Handling Mistakes


TJ Walker talks about handling mistakes during a speech or presentation.

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excerpt from upcoming book I’m writing on how to make a living following your passion

Magic moment: Find the ONE thing you do that people will pay you the most money for, even if making money isn’t your primary goal.
Many people who want to “follow their dream” never find a way of making money or they have too many ways of making money. You can spin yourself into an early grave chasing $9.95 by selling a pdf of your book, or trying to get people to join a membership to your web site for $39 a month. Those might be nice extras, but they won’t pay your bills, they won’t sustain you, they won’t make what you are doing REAL.
A lot of books are written about how to be a professional speaker, but it’s not about being a speaker for most people. Many people chase the dream of making $30,000 giving a one-hour keynote speech and they don’t realize that they spend 1000 hours trying to get that speaking gig, so they are only making $30 an hour. That’s better than shining shoes, but not by much.
They key thing is to find that one thing you do well, and that you have a passion for, and then to find the form and size and delivery mode where people pay the most for it. As much as I love giving speeches and being a commentator on TV and radio, I have made most of my money selling a one day, 8 hour, media and presentation training workshop for a fairly large amount of money. When I started my practice it was $3500 a day, then quickly to $5000, then $7500 and now sometimes $10,000 a day. If I’d just chased my dreams of being a platform keynote speaker or a TV commentator, I’d still be living in a rat-filled commune near Harlem.
If you don’t find that one thing you do well that is also rewarded by the market place, it won’t matter if you work 23.5 hours a day on websites, social media, blogging, writing books, giving presentations, attending networking events and creating podcasts. You will fail, not just monetarily but in other ways. You won’t be reaching people in a meaningful way. After awhile, your “mission” or your passion will feel like just a silly personal indulgence.
Smart, creative people are often good at doing many things. You may very well be able to do many things well, but I can virtually guarantee you that you aren’t able to market yourself well doing many things. Instead, market one thing you do well and make sure you become successful doing that. Rush Limbaugh and Howard Stern both have had successful books, TV shows, ties, special events, live appearances and Howard’s even had a movie. But both of them focused on doing one thing well for years and years and years before they ever did any of those other things—they both focused every waking moment on doing a good 3-4 hour radio show a day. In fact with all of their successes, they both still spend most of their energies on that ONE Thing.
What is your ONE thing that people LOVE and are willing to PAY for? If you don’t know, focus all of your energies on finding out what it is. And stop doing everything else!

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Don’t let your speech Get snowed in

What if your are on your way to deliver a presentation and you get snowed in? Or bad weather cancels your flight? do you risk life and limb driving on dangerous roads? Forget about it? I hope not. Instead, do what I do: Deliver the speech by Skype video. You don’t have to leave home and with a little work, it can be a pleasurable experience for your audience to. Watch the video below for more details.

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What happens if your speech gets snowed out – public speaking media training presentation training

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Rough draft outline for How to become a world famous expert following your passion and making a great living in the process

Find your niche by exploring your passion and seeing if enough other people in the world care about it too.
Focus on defining yourself as #1 in your niche.
How to know if your niche is real versus B.S.
Why you don’t need money to become the #1 in the world at your niche.
You don’t need tech skills, just patience and willingness to type.
You won’t get rich quick; you will make a living in 10 years and get rich in the long run.
If you love what you do and you make ends meet, you won’t be focused on getting rich quick and you won’t be bothered that you aren’t rich yet.
The magic secret sauce to making a living as an expert is cultivating your abilities to speak about what you do, whether it is as a chef like Emmerill, a homemaker like Martha or a relationship guru like Dr. Phil.
Read 1 book a week on your subject and one hour a day of news on your subject
Write one hour per day on your subject, even if it’s only a three sentence paragraph.
Give away your content in order to build fans.
Give away web content.
Give away newsletters.
Give away simple, talking head videos.
Turn content into books.
Find the one way of showing your expertise that people are willing to pay the most money for, i.e. a daylong workshop or a speech.
Don’t give up your day job until it’s economically irrational to continue.
Goal: getting prospects to call you, getting media to call you, getting all opportunities to call you.
When to start pitching the media
Don’t get seduced by the media (they won’t pay you for a long, long time)
How to get outsider testimonials positioning you as the best in the world.
How to leverage social media but not let it suck you into a black hole of time wasting.
How to build your platform consistently.
When to create and market products.
Determining the ultimate size, shape, and look of your company/practice.
Speaking for free
Speaking for Fee
Speaking for big fees.
Why products can make you but can also break you.
Exploring all media forms to make money
Exploring all forms of services that can make you money.
Why it is essential to raise prices on something every year.
Define your success on your terms.
Why you should strive to become a celebrity in your field.
Other ways of leveraging celebrity status in your field.
Why traveling the world is good for your brand, good for business and good for you.
Why you won’t ever want to retire.

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Democratic Lt. Gov Candidate Can’t Spin His Way Free

There are limits to spin. The Illinois Lt. Governor candidate Scott Lee Cohen dropped out of the race this week. It turns out that #1. Cohen has allegedly abused his wife. #2. He pulled a knife on his girlfriend. and #3. She might have been a prostitute.

It might be possible to spin your way out of one or two of these, but three strikes and you’re out still works in many situations.

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Democratic Lt. Gov Candidate Can’t Spin His Way Free

There are limits to spin. The Illinois Lt. Governor candidate Scott Lee Cohen dropped out of the race this week. It turns out that #1. Cohen has allegedly abused his wife. #2. He pulled a knife on his girlfriend. and #3. She might have been a prostitute.

It might be possible to spin your way out of one or two of these, but three strikes and you’re out still works in many situations.

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The Confident Speaker – Book Review


TJ Walker comments on the book by Harrison Monarth and Larina Kase called The Confident Speaker

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Sarah Palin caught writing on her hand

Sarah Palin used her own hand for notes for her tea party speech this past weekend. I’m all in favor of using notes while speaking, but not on your hand! the problem with writing on your hand is that it makes you look like you are a first grader or someone that Rahm Emmanuel might make fun of (the r word). For full analysis on cheat sheets, watch the video below.

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Transportation Secretary Ray LaHood makes soundbite Blunder

Ray “stop driving it” Lahood stuck his fit in his mouth earlier this week. To his credit, he corrected himself within 5 minutes. However, the damage was done. “Stop driving it” is just too juicy a sound bite for reporters covering Toyota’s woes to ignore. The sound bite is an absolute, emotional, attacking, and action oriented–it was destined to be quoted form DC to Tokyo. Lesson for Lahood: there are some things worse than being an overly scripted politician.

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Outline for my new book on Talk Head Social Media

Bulldog PowerPoint Script
1. What is Talking Head Social Media?
A. Simple, short talking head videos
B. Simple, brief one-on-one interviews
C. Anything you currently do in a text format

2. What is the starting point?
A. Your ideas
B. What people are searching NOW
C. Twitter page of top searches for the day
D. D. Yahoo
E. E. My steve Jobs preview video from last week (point out music and backdrop graphic. Play a few seconds)
F. What your customers care about

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James Arthur Ray charged with Manslaughter

I hope James Arther Ray gets a fair trial on his manslaughter charges, but since I’m not going to be a jury member, I’m free to weigh in. I hope he gets convicted and serves some time in his own “sweat lodge” with no easy escape.

It’s important to remember that history shows us that the greatest leaders who help humanity are usually great speakers. But it’s also important to remember that the worst self-serving tyrants who lead people to their own deaths are usually great speakers too.

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James Arthur Ray Charged with Manslaughter! – public speaking media training presentation training

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Scott Brown Handles Nude Photo Flap – public speaking media training presentation training

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Centerfold Senator Scott Brown Handles the Tough Questions

Sen. Scott Brown is a textbook example of how to handle embarrassing questions from the media. I’ve seen him on numerous tv shows over the last couple of weeks and each time he’s asked about his former career as a nude centerfold model for Cosmo. Each time, he smiles, looks relaxed and isn’t bothered at all. He laughs it off. There are only so many times reporters and opponents can bring this up. Brown is handling it perfectly by appearing to not let it get under his skin.

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Outline for my new media book. Please let me know what other topics you would like to see

You Are the Media:
How to communicate your messages with style and substance through old and new media

Chapters:
Introduction
What should be my goals in any media encounter?
How to you look your best if there is video involved?
How do you shape a media message?
How do you answer questions?
How do you speak in sound bites?
What is the best way to do YouTube videos?
How should I prepare for talk radio interviews?
What do I do if a print reporter pulls out a flip video camera and wants to record the video for his website?
How should I prepare for Internet talk radio shows?
How should I prepare for live video webinars?
Should I do video blogging?
What is the best way to do a podcast?
How do I do a satellite remote interview?
How do you set up a simple home/office video studio for one?
How do you set up a simple home/office video studio for two?
How do I handle bad news if I find myself in a media crisis?
How do I get on Oprah?
Should I worry about overexposure?
How long should an Internet video be?
What is the best way to do an in-house corporate video?
What is going to be the next new, new thing when it comes to new media?
What is the best way to be a guest on a teleseminar or conference call?
What is the difference between doing live video and audio interviews versus taped and edited interviews?
How should I prepare for media interviews?
How should I rehearse for media interviews?
What should I do immediately after every interview?
What are the most effective ways to make reporters like me and want to use me again?
What are the most effective ways to make reporters hate me and not want to interview me again?
What are the most effective ways to make bookers and producers like me and want to book me again?
What are the most effective ways to make bookers and producers hate me and not want to use me again?

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